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Brothers, love is a teacher, but a hard one to obtain: learning to love is hard and we pay dearly for it. It takes hard work and a long apprenticeship, for it is not just for a moment that we must learn to love, but forever. (Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov)
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I don't believe that any of our meandering years are "wasted". The journey is the important part; it prepares us for our final destination.
The mistakes we make along the way are valuable - if we reflect on them and learn from them.
Sometimes, I hear people say, "if I could go back to" a certain point in their lives, and relive it, of course, properly this time. How could they - it's just not possible to shortcut the system.
It's like the many parents who stick their kids in walkers - once the walker is taken away, the kid still has to learn to walk. In fact, in my experience, it takes kids longer to learn walking if they've used the walker. Falling down is NECESSARY. Failure can teach you, IF YOU LET IT.
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