Which is hard by the Manhattan Bridge overpass:
I am not making any of this up, and I thought I would take a commemorative photo as I passed by.
Brothers, love is a teacher, but a hard one to obtain: learning to love is hard and we pay dearly for it. It takes hard work and a long apprenticeship, for it is not just for a moment that we must learn to love, but forever. (Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov)